A1. It helps to remember that whenever we compare, we always compare strengths with weaknesses.  It is hard for me to see someone who seems to be good at evrything I am not good at.  Usually when I spend more time with them and talk with them, I find they have hardships too.  I love to get advice from others, and I find that when I ask for tips or advice they share real-life experiences, and this makes them more real to me. 

     A2. You need to realize that "Super Moms" don't exist.

     A3. Remember that you are good at some things that other moms are not, and for everything that a "super mom" does, there is something else she does not do (granted, some of the things she does not do may include wasting time, watching excessive amounts of television, worrying, complaining, etc.  Many times those kinds of mothers make the best mentors.). 

     A4. If you take the time to really get to know the "super moms," you'll realize that they have frustrations and weaknesses just like the rest of us.  You don't see the internal struggles that other women are going through.  The patient mom that you always admire might really be going through some hard times.  Just because she seems to be handling everything beautifully does not mean that her life is problem-free.  There may even be ways that you can help one another.

     A5. Remind yourself that it is okay for someone else to be more "put together" than you are.  Some people have had better role models or just learn faster than others--it does not mean that you are a failure.  Use the examples of others as inspiration to constantly improve yourself.